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tomjcbc
joined apr 2022
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TheGoodStuff
Buyer ignoring me for 10 days and letting the dispute run out
Buyer opens all my messages and doesnt respond. Dispute settles tomorrow. Autosettlementborg isnt interested and just says this is how it works.

advice on what shall I do?
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InstantGrams
This happens to me so often it’s actually so sad, almost every time I get a big order now I know it’s gonna be a dispute
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Reliablealias
The dispute should be in your favour.
From what I've read it kind of puts a mark against your name though and can lead to issues with other vendors so I'm not really sure how helpful it is all in all.
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TheGoodStuff
They never go in my favour, always in the buyers
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Reliablealias
I've never had a reason to dispute, any issues I had were always resolved pretty promptly.
I do feel for the vendors whom are abused by the dispute system too.
Honesty and comms are key, its just really hard knowing who is being honest.
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TheGoodStuff
If the guy was missing an order he'd be hounding me every day, instead he's ignoring me for over a week and opening my messages, leaving them unread.
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DrShroom
Unfortunately true. I've double sent an order before for an Oz of shrooms and still lost the dispute. I always make sure I compensate if I make a mistake but if I feel like someone is using the dispute mechanism as a way to scam, then they can go ahead.

The drop off in comms should be flagged by LB because it's a known pattern for sure
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